This doesn’t sound really good on me,
because I personally hate being labeled as a passive-aggressive person. But I
do have the symptoms and I didn’t realize
it until I am 21 years old. Can you imagine? I never understand why I am so
complicated until now. I don’t express
my feelings easily and I always hold back to say something I really want to
say. Introvert personality with passive aggressive behavior are not the best
combination. I don’t think they are in my genes, but the way I have been
growing up. I am not blaming anyone. I got in this situation by myself. Yet
someone said child is a blank paper, better be careful when you write in it.
I
read the symptoms in one teenage magazine, and they also said that person with
passive-aggressive behavior could be difficult because they don’t actually let
people know what they’re actually feeling and they hope people understand.
That’s why they are so moody and can be very irritating. In my age, it’s going
to be hard to heal it or fix it, because it started a long time ago since I
started to think that my opinions don’t matter and it will be a waste of time
to hear opinions came from me. I stopped raising hands in class, hiding my
opinions in back of my head. This behavior literally holds me back. And I hate
it. I don’t usually stand up for myself because I hate conflict and arguments.
That’s one of the symptoms.
I should stop discussing the
symptoms and start telling you how to deal with it. In arguments I can’t avoid,
I usually give GOOD reasons or proof to support my arguments. Or in a
discussion, instead of keep listening without contributing anything, I start
making project plans, browse on the Internet to support the plans and make
myself useful. It was actually not really bad when I finally contributed to one
of group project. Or being in the same group with friends you don’t see eye to
eye, it’s wont be a big problem because good grades are the ones that matter.
The moral value is stop holding yourself back because everyone is destined to
be great. It’s not comforting at first but it helps.
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